Perspective

It's a matter of perspective.
I always tell myself that. Why? 

Because when things don't quite go your way, we often sought to make things right. However, experience tells us, we can't fix every goddamn thing out there.Some things are just beyond our control,and quite frankly, that frustrates me.

Why frustrate. simply shift the paradigm and change the perspective.
It's always the matter of perspective.

Now thats important because if you are able to change your perspective of things, you are able to find the best in worst situations,the beautiful amongst the mud and the bright in a gloomy day.Why do we need to force ourselves to endure certain norms, and definitions pre-set to us by society or others in order to fullfill our heart's desire of accomplishment. Take religion as a very good example, instead of being guidelines to a better,proper life.It's more often perceived as a set of rules that we got to live by. Is it a must to have a religion to be a good person, or are all good people those who are immersed in the teachings of religions. If history has thought us any better, it doesn't make a fucking difference.

We need not live by rules set to us by others, we live by our own rules and down to what we perceive as a quality life. For me, quality life is when happiness is there, so I go my way to get my happiness whilst admitting that a life without any rules is quite destructive, a life filled with rules and standards is also pretty condeminng. Have guidelines to abide by, don't over do things and at the same time don't ignore it.The key word here being balance, and the rest is changing your perspective of life to better suit your needs of life.The point being is do things to make yourself happy or comfortable or whatever that you find key in your life instead of living by standards, norms or pre-defined behaviour expected for us by others.Live your life and to do so, a change of perspective is golden.Take my word for it, look things differently and live life the way you want it. Otherwise, you are living but not alive.